The Venn Diagram of Familiarity and Contempt
Irradiated by LabRat
It occurs to me in that “no supporting evidence but my own observations” way that there is a distinct pattern in which people develop their prejudices and bigotries large and small, one that revolves around the degree of experience that person has in interacting with an identified group.
If it’s a group you have very extensive experience with and know very well, real bigotries don’t develop because you know that group too well; either you identify with the group yourself, or you simply have enough broad experience within it to know that the people making it up vary a tremendous amount and developing hard-and-fast good/bad stereotypes is not only undesirable, but pointless. You might know that group’s usual foibles and good and bad tendencies and have opinions about those aspects of the group, but you don’t think about them in terms of “(group name) are (adjective)”.
If it’s a group you don’t know and have no experience with, then you generally don’t have bigotries about them because there’s no *point* in developing much in the way of stereotypes about a group you don’t interact with. You might have some hilarious misconceptions or simplified mental pictures of them just because you lack information, but they’re not typically value-laden unless and until you mentally sort them into same basket as some other group you DO have experience with in order to integrate/simplify your worldview a little more. No American would have reason to be bigoted against, say, members of the Kikuyu ethnic group of Africa, but they might fold them into a broader group of “black people” when attempting to create a Grand Unified Theory of Race to justify his stereotype of the black people he’s familiar with. Americans generally have no stereotypes about, say, ethnic Mongolians at all, simply because they have no reason at all to.
Prejudices positive and negative, as well as real bigotries, tend to develop in that area of overlap between “people I identify as part of my world” and “people that are strange to me”. It’s easiest to observe in areas where a particular prejudice isn’t broadly socially unacceptable- witness the incest and stupidity jokes that come out of the woodwork when an urban liberal is discussing anything that poor white Appalachians or Gulf Coast southerners do. People that wouldn’t dream of doing anything but respectfully studying the culture of any group seen as “foreign” enough feel more than free to paint a group they see as an unfamiliar aspect of their own culture in cartoonish stereotypes- up to and including ones they see positively. Noble-savage stereotypes about American Indians are typically rooted in exactly the same mental processes as the cousin-humping redneck ones, they’re just colored by admiration rather than contempt.
Racism tends to work this way as well; whatever immediate experiences you have of it tend to go along the lines of the larger minority groups in your area. If you live in the Southwest, hispanics are the “relevant” ethnic group, and most of your experiences of racism probably relate to them, but not as much if at all to black people. If you live in the South, the opposite is probably true, and if you live in Alaska, the experience most likely shifts to natives. Only the people rubbing up against you, but not closely enough to be seen as “family”, are relevant enough to be worth bigotry.
April 21st, 2010 at 5:20 pm
Actually Alaskans pretty much universally hate Texans thanks to their interactions with the roughnecks brought up to work on the pipeline. Which kind of proves your point.
April 21st, 2010 at 8:16 pm
This rings pretty true to me. I grew up on a ranch in North Dakota and honestly can’t remember even seeing any black people that weren’t either Doctors (or something similar), or Air Force personal as a kid. The first black person I actually knew was a guy that had just got out of the Marines (he was recon) and worked with me for a fencing company when I was 17. He was odd to me in ways, but a pretty good guy. Hell, I liked (some) rap music, and so did he. I didn’t see the fuss about blacks. I was Shocked when I went to college in Oklahoma and had people assume I was “safe” to talk to so they would go off about N*****. Actually, come to think of it, the closest I came to growing up with real prejudice was against Indians, and I found it a bit odd that a lot of Oklahoman people would claim Indian heritage and go on to cuss blacks.
April 21st, 2010 at 10:26 pm
It doesn’t help that some stereotypes are considered fair game for the arts to reinforce. And I’m being generous in including today’s entertainment industry in the “arts”. It’s acceptable to make fun of certain groups of people, I guess.
I think just about every human being has some prejudices, even when they think they don’t.
April 23rd, 2010 at 6:52 am
Doesn’t explain men prejudiced against women, or women prejudiced against men.
Unless you first posit that the opposite sex is actually another species entirely…
April 23rd, 2010 at 9:55 am
Pax- it does if you observe how often such men and women really DO act like the opposite sex is another species and socially isolate themselves from them at all times except for sexual/”romantic” interaction, even if they live in the same house.
If no barrier exists, some don’t seem to feel right until they invent one.
April 23rd, 2010 at 2:21 pm
Humans ARE the most dangerous monkeys on the planet. Only a human will kill you for your bad taste in music. And, yes, the thought of doing that has crossed my mind, a time or two. Also, I am somewhat annoyed that the law forbids me, as does my Christianity, to plant anti-personnel mines on golf courses.
April 23rd, 2010 at 2:23 pm
P.s. Not to mention prudence.